Have you ever thought about about when exactly you decide things? It occurred to me as I was unlatching the bathroom stall door, because I think I had just caught my subconscious deciding something. If you can't pinpoint a moment when decided to take your current job or get married or whatever then it was probably while you were spitting out your toothpaste or slamming your car door shut. It's kind of scary, but telling, to think that our most important decisions are made while doing the most mundane tasks.
But I'd also suspect there are times when I'm definitely not deciding things, like when I'm watching a movie or TV show or maybe driving. I suspect this because at these times my senses are sort of saturated, and I don't really have the mind to process thoughts internally. I'm either being barraged by entertainment, which is engrossing me (hopefully) with its captivating story or emotional scenes, or my visual and motor senses are plugged in to the traffic world while my audio senses are either rocking out or involved in conversation.
Hopefully this has been some use to those of you who found my blog by searching "how to have a threesome blogs" on Google (I'm the # 3 hit for that search string as of today). If you're confused, no I have not ever given out advice on how to construct (compile? convene?) a threesome, but I think I have mentioned the existence of threesomes once, and maybe that some people are interested in having them. I actually do have advice, I'm just not giving it. The advice I'm not giving is based on experience but on internal revelation and an extrapolation of my experiences. No interpolation is involved.